Growing Pains and How Life Works
"....I think a lot about that; like how something that I thought was so integral to my being, you know, like enjoying the cold weather and, like, centring a part of my identity around that, because I did, trust me, I did, like how that? Like, it can just become a very insignificant part of my life, all of a sudden or, you know gradually, but I realise it, the realisation comes upon me all of a sudden, it's just like 'oh, so I'm not that person anymore.'"
"One thing that I like to brag about when I introduce myself to new people is how I’m named after a star, even though I had no say in it whatsoever; the brightest star in the constellation of Grus, Alpha Gruis has the local name Al-Nair, so I’m basically the female counterpart of that."
The Inspiration Behind Growing Pains
A couple of drafts later, they decided to abandon the project, but Nayyira was still hung up on the idea. Starting from 2019, she decided to draft a bunch of poems and essays under a collection of the same title, Growing Pains, and since she was already an avid podcast listener, she wanted to put out the collection in an audio form, however, she said that "the podcast could be considered an adjacent project of sorts," which is completely true! Listening to the podcast doesn't feel at all like listening to poetry or essays, it feels more like a laid back conversation with Nayyira the human and how she deals with life, being as confused as we all are!
"There are also poems from the collection included in some of the episodes, like Ashore from episode 4 ‘Happiness Was Never The Goal’, and the latest episode where I talk about identity actually has a piece I’ve written for sfts."
Growing Pains' Main Purpose
"Because I have the same experience listening to podcasts, they’re like a little friend that’ll always be there whenever I don’t want to be alone, making breakfast, doing the laundry, eating when I don’t want to be eating alone. Offering that same comfort to other people brings me immense joy."
Her Audience
However, when it comes to gaining an audience in Egypt, she told us that it isn't that easy as audio content is still not that popularised here. That being said, a lot of efforts are indeed made targeting this issue, and Nayyira is taking part in it as much as she can!
".... just this year I’ve attended the first-ever Podcast Festival in Cairo, and I made a (lame excuse of a) podcast pitch. However, I’m not targeting an Egyptian audience, as a matter of fact, most of my audience isn’t Egyptian according to analytics collected."
Time Management?
"One of my current short term goals is to have someone else be managing those. But as for making the podcast itself, it’s just already a big part of my life, there isn’t a lot extra to manage. That’s probably because I talk about things I’m going through, it’s therapeutic in a way, it’s an emotional and creative outlet."
The Process
"I doubt anyone who makes a podcast just presses record and goes for it. It definitely depends on what kind of content you’re putting out, but even the laid-back, just-talking podcasts will have some sort of list planned out. Not having any prior outline is just going to make producing a coherent piece of content way harder."
As for her personal favourite episode, she told us she has none yet, but she did enjoy recording the Valentine's Special about love which she recorded with Haneen as she enjoys talking to Haneen and talking about the topic of love, saying that she will definitely have more episodes discussing it.
What Growing Pains Means To Nayyira
"Growing pains, the actual medical condition, is a phase that sometimes occurs in school-age children. It eventually goes away. But I don’t think I can grow past my pains, it’s funny for me to even think about that. As joyous as life can be, growing up is just uncomfortable, with a lot of painful parts. There’s a lot of confusion and uncertainty and I don’t think that goes away. And I’m okay with that. I don’t think it’s necessarily a bad thing."
Growing Pains and Nayyira's Future
As for herself, she's always working on, planning and abandoning stuff. Working on a bunch of different projects simultaneously may mean that she does terribly at all, all while having creative commitment issues, which is totally fine by her.
"My serious work plans right now are long-term and I don’t feel comfortable sharing every step, mostly because I don’t want to be pressured into anything, I want to have complete creative freedom and right now for me that means not sharing everything I’m working on. However, you might see a poetry zine coming soon, but who knows, keep an eye out on my Instagram."
Her Advice to You
"I honestly don’t think I have anything in particular. Just do your research, kids. There are countless resources out there. Do the work, reflect on it, redo it. Put it out there. And godspeed. "
Conclusion
You can find a lot of applications of Nayyira's mindset in her podcast, along with stories of her trial and error with life. Click here to listen to it!