Both of Your Hearts Love Each Other, But Do Both of Your Brains Understand Each Other Too?

Both of your hearts love each other, but do both of your brains understand each other too?
We all know that no one chooses who they love but, on the other hand, you have to love someone who can understand you.
There would be a lot of arguments because both of you can't comprehend the other's mindset. One of you looks east and the other looks west. I can't say that either of you is blind.
So when you are choosing a partner, you must choose the one you feel can understand and respect your mind. You should have loads in common; like the same things, hate the same things, and think similarly.